Homage to Helen of
Washington
While some people camped
out over night to get tickets to a Michael Jackson concert, the opening of
“Star Wars” or worship at the Cathedral of Saint Tennis Shoe, I stood in the
“line of history” for almost five decades to meet Senior White House Reporter
Helen Thomas. Growing up in our home in
Washington, DC, my dad appointed her our kind of “royalty.” Her columns became
decrees, with some of them contributing to the mission statement for my social
activism.
When my dad would come
home from serving parties at private clubs, in the homes of Beltway elites and
K Street cocktail parties, he would note with great excitement that there was a
woman in the press corps who was “wrecking their nerves.” Her historical acumen, political savvy and
journalistic integrity were proving to be a bane to their existence. The Beltway Boys and K Street lobbyist tried
everything to discredit and dishonor her including trying “to boil her in vats
of sexism.” But despite their decades-long efforts, she continued to crash the
glass ceiling with the cape of tenacity draped across her shoulders.
In 1961, Thomas became
the first female member of the White House Press Corp and from that point
forward unbolted every door slammed in her face. She segued seamlessly from
covering celebrity profiles and social issues, to foreign policy, the
encroaching tentacles of K Street and the tenures of ten presidents from John
F. Kennedy to Barack Obama. Prior to joining the White House Press Corps, she
covered the Department of Justice, FBI and Capitol Hill. Fierce and factual, her goal was to get
relevant and straight forward answers to tough questions and translate them
into how the country was being run, who was running it as well as insisting
upon clarification applied to the policies and laws by which it was being run. While
many inside the Beltway continued to bend the bough of ethics and operate
without even a molecule of a conscience, she maintained an insistence upon
integrity that made the “Thank you, Mr. President” with which she closed out
each press conference more than a salute to etiquette.
In September of 2009,
I moved to the front of that line in which I’d waited since 1962 and met
her. She and Congresswoman Barbara Lee
came to Mills College where they engaged in a riveting conversation focused on
President Obama’s promises and agenda brimming with hope and new possibilities. Her book Listen Up, Mr.
President: Everything You Always Wanted Your President to Know and Do had just been released and served as part
of the focus for the conversation as well. I arrived early to the event to ensure that I would get a seat and upon
arriving, sat out in the lobby across from a woman who engaged me in
conversation rather quickly. It turned
out that the woman, Abby Johollo, was her travel companion and attendant. We quickly found ourselves immersed in a
conversation about her homeland of Sierra Leone and discussing her country’s
comeback from the ravages of civil war.
She ended up escorting me into the reception and introducing me to Ms.
Thomas, who spent the next fifteen minutes attentively talking to me, when I
told her the story of how long I’d stood in the line of history waiting to meet
her. We talked about my “invisible”
father hearing denigrating remarks uttered, as he served cocktails and canapés,
some of her most memorable moments covering ten US presidents and Mama Ayesha’s
iconic restaurant in Washington, DC; a favorite for us both.
Awed by the
presidency, but not the presidents, her fierceness, intelligence and precise
knowledge of US policy made it possible to navigate through the quagmire of
presidential politics like no reporter had before. Lyndon Johnson, whose relationship with the
press came with a serious tension, could not believe that in addition to heady
challenges from Civil Rights leaders and the enormous opposition to the War on
Vietnam, the likes of Helen Thomas was one of the contending forces in his
life. Eventually she would find herself
declaring Johnson one of the best presidents ever for his work on the “War on
Poverty.” From President Johnson and “Bush
the Younger” to Obama, she saw how bills and legislation were misapplied under
the guise of wars we were told were essential to Democracy. Thousands of those battered and barely
breathing men and women have come home from wars, only to be “discharged” by
policies that did nothing to help them keep their homes from being foreclosed
upon or faced with the utter treachery of navigating the terrain of health
benefits entwined in Kafkaesque bureaucracy.
After the conversation
there was a book signing. I purchased
multiple copies and invited her to join me in the coming months at my brother’s
home in DC, where I often held dinner parties when I went home. In 2010, when I came I invited her to have
tea, for my brother was ill and hosting a dinner party at his home was not an
option. She said, “Oh, no my dear, no
tea. You are joining me for dinner at
the Press Club to listen to the State of the Union Address.” There I sat next to this living textbook in what
truly was an historically and socially surreal moment. She deftly navigated me through the nuances
of every statement the president uttered and clarified the relationship between
the reality of the related policies and the rhetorical cushioning used to
position and align himself with his then hope-filled message.
After the speech, several people spoke to me
and commented on how they had not seen me in such a long time. Well, I didn’t know any of these
people and was absolutely perplexed by their claims of knowing me. Later my brother Vincent commented that they
had to know me, because I was at the table with Helen Thomas.
She insisted that I
call her Helen and the protocol of my strict black southern upbringing made
that difficult. We were not allowed to
call anyone a generation or more above us by their first names. But she would not accept anything else. So Helen it became, and friends we did as
well. On subsequent trips, we shared
lunch at her apartment and drank tea infused with Meyer Lemons I brought her
from my garden in Oakland. Upon being
condemned and subsequently terminated for making remarks critical of Israel,
she told me that some who had bestowed awards and honors upon her, asked that
she return them; I was appalled and infuriated.
Every
couple of months, I’d call and she continued to introduce me to new chapters in
the “textbook.” The last time I visited,
I took her to dinner at DC’s renowned Eatonville. She was enthralled by how creatively
appointed this iconic culinary and literary tribute to 20th century
writer Zora Neale Hurston was and talked at length about the deep regard and
respect she had for owner Andy Shallal.
During the months that
followed, our conversations were brief, for I could hear her struggling to
muster the energy to discuss our mutually held outrages about American
exceptionalism and the steady rise of the waves of Fascism licking at the shores
of the Gulf, Atlantic and Pacific. But
her mind nor spine were never fractured or crushed by the boots of power
attempting to rest on her neck. We also fantasized about ideas for forging
peace, in Congress and the Middle East, at a time when we both felt the bottom
had fallen out of hell.
She also loved to hear
about what I’d planted in my garden, a place where I will honor her during my
next season of planting by naming the growing enclave of rescued orchids after
her. On each visit to her apartment,
there was a fresh orchid on the table. To
have been a part of Helen’s life and witness this incredibly brilliant and
fierce seasoned elder has given me the courage to face more daunting days. She and her legacy will remain my teacher and
mentor, as I continue to stand on the shoulders of her fierceness observing the
landscape being racially torn asunder, fracked and droned by some of those same
men who tried to boil her in those vats of sexism.
From ancestral roots in Tripoli to her
birthplace in Winchester, Kentucky to growing up in Detroit and navigating her
way as an author and journalist through the congressional and presidential
corridors of Washington, DC, her life reflected an unrelenting desire to see
America realize the real Democracy it was once on the threshold to
becoming. I’m just so fortunate to have
lived at a time when hers was a voice that unhinged so many doors that shut out
women. She stood among the tall trees in a stand where she neither bowed nor
bent. Even from the back row, where she
had been relegated by the Bush Administration for challenging the war mongering
of the Bush-Cheney Cabal, she had such a strategic way of docking words on her
tongue before launching them through the titanium walls of power. Whether it is declared by presidential decree
or not, I will honor and celebrate August 4th as Helen Thomas Day
for the rest of my days.
Daphne Muse is a
writer, social commentator and poet. You
can read her blogs at www.daphnemuse.blogspot.com.
Thank you, Daphne, for honoring this remarkable woman. I always had in my mind that I would meet her some day, interview her, or just sit at her feet and learn--so great that you two bonded!
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